The best part of family is the coziness and love between generations. When I visit my little guy, I love snuggling and telling him stories of his choosing. We get comfortable and turn the lights low. As I tuck in him in his quilt, he asks “Gwamma, tell me a story.”
“What do you want to hear?”
“Tell me about when you were bad.” I’ll launch into yet another story of mischief I got into as a rambunctious child, usually involving one of my unfortunate brothers or sisters, and some grave misunderstanding or miscalculation. Always embellished for greater appeal, one leads to another, until eventually one of us drifts off to sleep. I want him to know what I was like as a child and to understand that we are really not that different, despite the years between us. I need to tell these things as much as he needs to hear them.
It looks like I keep discovering this gem.
you wrote:I need to tell these things as much as he needs to hear them
It’s always mutual.
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I will be having a granddaughter anytime now. I was gathering flower seed the other days and thought, “I hope I get to teach the little one to gather these seeds. Hummingbirds love these Columbines. There are so many things I hope to pass on.”
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It must be a comfort to have so many family members who are close to each other. The cycle of life is really a breathtaking miracle. I don’t understand people who believe that their best years are adolescence and young adulthood.
My experience is that each phase of life brings newness and magic; we just have to be willing to take on new roles, like Grandmother.
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Grandmother may be best yet.
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I hear that its all of the pleasure with none of the pain…
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Just fun! No responsibility!
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Yeah!!! Well a little…children worship their grandparents…Or maybe it was just me…LOL
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No Every minute with my grandma was heaven.
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Yep! 🙂
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“The best part of family is the coziness and love between generations.”
so true, and wise.
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It makes us all one, doesn’t it.
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yes…
🙂
It is what gives life meaning…I think…
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You reminded me of my childhood beside my grandma in bed, and her childhood stories, some of which I only understood fully after I grew up. I belive these stories play a part in making us who we are. Often Grannys play stronger role than parents…
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The best part is not having to be responsible for discipline. Grandparents are free to love and not make the hard decisions. I adored my grandmother.
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It sounds like you have a lovely relationship with your grandson. It is great how you both love the stories and then fall asleep snuggled together; precious moments.
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He’s darling, but he has been known to tell me to move. I was sleeping too loud! (Snoring)
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That’s what I like. Being able to have the child get wide eyed when they realize “we” were once just like them.
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I’m writing him a story about that very thing now.
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I love it! (That you are doing that I mean). 🙂
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Me too.
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It’s about us stopping to take a break under an apple tree. Apples hit us on the head. He’s transported back to spend a typical day with me.
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Brilliant!! Will you be sharing it here? Or is it special just for him?
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Thinking about that.
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Sweet.
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I bet you have lots of stories about when you were bad LOL. I can’t wait for grandchildren, although me eldest son is just 25, may be a while yet…
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Don’t expect to run out of when I was bad stories for quite a while!
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It sounds like you are bonding with him – wonderful 🙂
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I do love him!
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