My friend Ellen planned to adopt her sister’s newborn due about the same time as her own. She was her sister’s coach and put the newborn baby girl to her own breast at its birth, taking it home with her the next day. Her sister, the birth mother went back to college, missing only one day of class. Seven days later Aunt/Mama Ellen was sitting in the obstetrician’s office, hugely pregnant, nursing her newborn babygirl amidst a crew of confused pregnant women in the waiting room. The next day, she gave birth to her own baby girl. The girls considered themselves twins, despite being cousins. Both called the mother’s sister, aunt, and Elle, Mama. It was a happy solution to a challenging situation.
Precious.
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It was a happy outcome!
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That’s a sweet and wonderful story!
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It was heartwarming. I didn’t realize a pregnant woman’s milk would come in before that and I am a nurse!
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I’m not surprised. I nursed my daughter and decided to take her off about 3 months. She was allergic to all types of milk except this VERY expensive formula. She didn’t do well and wasn’t gaining weight. I went to the La Leche League and asked them to help me get my breast milk back. They gave me a tube with a bag for milk on it. I had to nurse her using the formula but after awhile my milk came back in. Because I usually only nursed her on my right breast, my milk only came back in that breast. But it did come back and I nursed her until she was a year old then took her off and she had outgrown all of her allergies. I think it partially has to do with brain chemicals which would explain why she was able to get milk prior to the delivery.
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I have since researched it. Men can nurse. There is a tribe in Africa where men regularly nurse. Milk comes in if you regularly put the baby to breast. It just takes patience.
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Yes, I can vouch for that. It does take patience! In fact, I told my pediatrician that I was going to put her back on the breast (I hadn’t nursed in about 3 months). He laughed at me and said, “What do you women think you are, faucets you can turn off and on?” I thought, “I’ll show him!” Haha
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Aren’t you thrilled to have given that priceless gift!
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Oh yes, once she was back on the breast she gained weight and thrived. It was worth the patience. I was thinking about those native men that nurse their infants. I didn’t realize that men also have mammory glands.
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They have all the same stuff, just less of the hormones to stimulate them. Look it up.
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They do.
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Another thing, this happened to me and every other nursing mother I have talked to, when actively nursing a baby all I would have to do was think about my baby getting hungry and my milk would drop and would leak. That has to be brain chemicals.
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My sister is in her sixties. She says she still feels the urge for her milk to let down if she hears a newborn cry and learns over a crib.
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Really? That is very interesting. She must have nursed all of her children. I had 2 children but I only nursed 1. My oldest, we lived in a small hick town away from family and I was too ignorant to know how.
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She was very successful nursing the first. The second failed to thrive and she eventually had to totally switch to formula, but she really tried hard. The baby was losing weight.
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Isn’t that odd how one baby did so well on it but the other one didn’t. I’m glad the second baby did well on formula.
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She really did well on formula. My sister was relieved, but disappointed in herself., of course. You know how women are.
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Was it the two babies that she was trying to nurse at the same time? If it is, I’m thinking that the first baby may have been getting more cream and the second baby may have been getting more water. ?? Just a thought.
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No, she only had one at a time. The two baby story was another story.
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Oh, okay. That is very interesting. I’m sure your sister felt badly she wasn’t able to nurse her second baby. I know I would have had it been me.
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She felt cheated.
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Yes, I would imagine so.
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What a wonderful heartwarming story!! Good for them, and such cute babies!!!
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They had a happy family!
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That’s really special and such a proof of love.
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It was a good story.
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Oh yes!!!
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That’s so beautiful. Love how the sister took over although expecting herself. Beautiful!
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Thought it was a great way to keep family together. Ellen eventually had about six kids in all. Had rollicking good time.
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Wow 🙂
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Thx.
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Wow wonderful it worked out for them
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Yes, that little girl could have been lost to that family.
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Yes and that would have been a great lose
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Everybody won!
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Awwww…..
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Wow! She was able to nurse before giving birth? Yes, ill bet it did confuse a lot of expectant mother’s! How old are the children now?
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Her milk came right in. Teenagers.
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