This is my great-great grandmother, Mary Ann Graybeal Hardin Jones McCarrell, born July 5, 1838 in North Carolina, pictured with her second husband, my great-great grandfather John James Jones. Her first marriage was to a Mr. Hardin when she was twenty-two. He died in the Civil War, leaving her with young children. She married Captain John James Jones when she was thirty. They had two daughters, including my great-grandmother, Sarah Catherine Jones. He was a Civil War Veteran, his left leg perpetually bent at the knee. He had to have lived less than four years after the marriage, since she married Mr. Evan McCarrell, a widower with two sons and two daughters when she was thirty-four. It is likely this was a marriage of convenience since he was several years her senior and both had children to raise.
Mary Ann Graybeal died accidently at the age of fifty-eight, July 8, 1886, when she travelled with her step-son to Knoxville, Tennessee, to consult a doctor about a lump in her breast. Unfamiliar with gas lights, when they went to bed in their hotel room, one of them blew out the gas-light instead of turning the gas off. She was asphyxiated, though he survived.
Her older three daughters were married at the time she died. The youngest, Sarah Catherine(Kate) lived with her married sister Carrie for a while. At the tender age of fourteen, she married my great-grandfather, Gordon Perkins. My grandmother always felt she married as soon as she could to get her own home.
You’re so lucky to have all that information, sad though it is. The picture reflects her hardships, it seems. Amazing.
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she was between 30 and 33 when that Pic was made.
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How wonderful to know so much history of your great great grandmother!
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My family is huge on storytelling.
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It is so interesting looking back over the history of our ancestors and how they lived. What an amazing story this is of your great-great grandmother! 🙂
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I loved this story!
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What a story, and how lucky you are to have this photographic evidence and all this information about your ancestors Linda!
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I was so happy when I found this picture. I’d known the story for years. She had to be between 30 and 34 when this was made.
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I wish I had more photos,… I only have pictures of my dads parents, nothing further back. And some of my great grand ma from my mum’s side…
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My cousin brought my mother a box of pictures and letters. What a treasure!
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That really is a treasure!!
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thrilling
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Does your family still live in NC? I lived for quite some happy time in Leicester – just out of Asheville.
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No, my grandmother left there over ninety years ago when she married, but she talked so much about it l always felt like it was home. Actually, she lived just over the line in Virginia.
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I love Asheville.
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That’s a tragical story, Linda.
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She really had a lot of losses, didn’t she?
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Sometimes it is unbelievable how much some people are supposed to bear.
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It was very unusual for a woman to lose three husbands. There was a shortage of men after the Civil War. One husband died in the war and the other two were veterans. I think she had some money and property.
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Wow that was really a hard life, but then again she was at least lucky to not be destitute after that all. Hard anyway.
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It was.
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