Reel Recovery provides an incredible opportunity for men with cancer of any stage to enjoy a weekend fly-fishing, spend time with companions who understand the struggles they face, and the joy of being in nature, while learning a new skill, or perfecting an old one. All equipment, meals, and accommodations are provided at no cost to participants. They are free to choose the location of their choice, but must provide their own transportation to site.
Retreats are lead by professional facilitators and expert fly-fishing instructors. A maximum of twelve to fourteen men are in cited to ensure the quality of instruction and create a powerful small-group dynamic.
Goals: Provides a safe,reflective environment for the participants to discuss their disease and recovery with other men with shared experiences, providing support to help in their recovery.
Provide expert fly-fishing instruction instruction enabling participants to learn a new skill, form a connection with nature, and participate in a sport they can continue throughout their recovery and lifetime.
Provide participants about cancer-related resources in the local community and nationally to facilitate networking and enhanced management of their recovery.
each participant is paired with a fishing biddy to assist them during their workshop. If you would like to be a participant,volunteer or make a donation please contact us: National: toll Free 800-699-4490 firstname.lastname@example.org
Texas: Mike Emerson: 817-894-7832 email@example.com
Oklahoma: Martin Weaver 405-808-7116. firstname.lastname@example.org
If you want to donate to a designated retreat, please designate that on your donation form.
Many years ago, I was on an hospital elevator with a minister I knew. A somber man got on with us. He looked straight ahead, deep in thought. Attempting to make conversation, the minister said, “Smile, it can’t be that bad.”
The man’s expression never changed. In a low voice he remarked, “My son just died.”
The minister and I were both shocked. As he stammered an apology, all three of us burst in to tears. We hugged the man, offered shocked condolences, and offered to make phone calls for him. The minister got off and went with him.
I’ve never forgotten, and suspect neither of them has either. You just never know what a person is dealing with.
We’ve been married more than forty years, but we both just retired. It’s like getting married, except no honeymoon. I get up early to write and make coffee. Bud gets up, fixes our coffee and we drink coffee for a while. I cook breakfast and tidy up a bit while Bud checks the history channel to see what Hitler is up to today or to see which Global Continue reading
Upon hearing that I have been married for forty-seven years to a loving man, your friend asked if I had any advice for a young person considering marriage. I have no special expertise or qualification for counseling, except forty-seven years’ experience in my own marriage, but I will share that with you.
- Respect is imperative. Take the time to see how he/she treats parents and siblings. If a person is not respectful to their family, take your cue from that. Definitely meet their family. That alone will answer a lot of questions about your possible future together. Remember, any children you have may be more like either of your family members than they are like either of you.
- Shared values. Discuss your values and expectations. Religion? How will you manage your money? Will you have children? Will you both work outside the home? How will you share responsibility? These factors end relationships every day.
- Don’t expect marriage to be 50/50. You will both have to give 100% to make it work. It took me a while to figure out my husband didn’t want to talk things out once a conflict was over. It’s okay to say, “Give me a little time. I am still mad.” It’s not okay to punish or be mean-spirited. Let go of your anger as soon as you can, then put it in the past.
- Loyalty. You have to put each other first. We have each other’s back. We trust each other, not wasting time on jealousy and games. We are together because we want to be, not because we have to be.
- Make sure the person you love will be your friend forever. You have to be comfortable together, not forever trying to meet their expectations. You need to be able to laugh and cry together to get through the good times and the hard times.
Best of luck.