Cousin Kat was tight. We always took plenty of food when we went to visit, knowing how “conservative” she was. She thought three rolls, three scrambled eggs, a little jam and a dab of butter was plenty for any number of guests there might be for breakfast. “I just don’t think there’s any point in folks being hoggish,” was her favorite phrase as she set out a meal. She was a devout believer and had probably heard that story about Jesus feeding the multitudes on five loves and three fishes one too many times.
A few days before our last visit, someone had given Cousin Kat some fresh homemade sausage. She’d eaten a bit and saved some for us. That sounded fine till I opened her tiny 1940 model refrigerator to get some water. The rank smell of bad meat nearly knocked me down. “Ooh, Cousin Kat, I think something’s gone bad in here!”
“Oh, it’s not bad. It’s just that sausage Barney gave me. It’s real spicy!” She answered, totally unconcerned. “I’m gonna cook it up for supper.”
I made up my mind then and there to eat popcorn. I’ve never smelled a spice that mimicked the smell of rotting meat so closely. Mother and Phyllis both found other options. Count Kat cooked that sausage and ate up all by herself, since she was determined not to let it go to waste. It stunk the whole house up with its nauseating odor as it cooked. We all told her it smelled like it might have “gone to the bad.” She disagreed.
We planned a road trip for the four of us to go into Amish Country and packed a nice picnic …no sausage. Phyllis and Cousin Kat decided to take their showers the evening before so The four of us wouldn’t be competing in the morning. Cousin Kat told her how she could run a bit of water in the tub, sit on the edge, wash her face, ears, neck, then her body before washing the best parts and her feet. That way, she could get by with just a little of that expensive hot water. Well, I do believe I heard the shower running while Phyllis was in there, despite her lesson. Cousin Kat perked up her ears, too. When Phyllis came out, Cousin Kat said, “I hope you stopped up the tub and saved your water for me. Just one person don’t mess up bath water none.” Shamefaced, Phyllis had to admit she run it all down the drain. Cousin Kat gave her a look.
We went on to bed. I snore and talk in my sleep, so no one would bunk in with me. I am always early to bed, so I took the small bedroom. Cousin Kat gave Mother an inflatable mattress her son had left there to put on the living floor. Unfortunately, he had taken the pump home with him, so they sent a great deal of time trying to inflate it with a small hand-held hairdryer, the wrong tool for the job. Eventually, it approximated a mattress, though it flattened out the minute Mother reclined on it. They hadn’t bothered to pad the floor with quilts, so Mother was freezing the minute she lay down that frosty October evening. She got up, dragged her covers tote old-fashioned bi-fold sofa and tried to warmup. It was hard, lumpy, and had a couple of exposed springs but it was better than the icy floor.
Meanwhile, things weren’t going much better for Phyllis in the large, unheated upstairs bedroom. She’d chosen it because she liked to sleep in the cold. She’d dawdled and was the last to get to bed. I was quickly asleep though I kept up a listen for retching during the night, expecting Cousin Kat to come down with food poisoning, but the next thing I knew, Phyllis was climbing in the small creepy bed with me. “I thought you were too good to sleep with me.” I reminded her.
“I am, but when I got upstairs and switched on that dim overhead light, and everything looked fine, but when I turned back the quilts, rice scattered all over the place. I couldn’t imagine why rice would be on the bed, like that. I turned on that little flashlight Cousin Kat gave me and saw the bed and floor covered in mouse pellets. Mice were scattering everywhere. I can’t sleep up there with all those mice. She was mad! I was laughing so hard the springs were creeping. We sounded like honeymooners.
As I mentioned earlier, I don’t sleep well, I talk in my sleep. In truth, it’s much worse than that. I curse and hurl epithets, language I’d never use during waking hours. Once I drifted off, Phyllis and I rolled up in that ancient mattress like a couple of hotdogs in a bun. She swears I shoved her and screamed at her to “get the f…. Out of here. I don’t remember a thing about it!
In a huff, she got up in search of a place to sleep. Seeing that Mother had abandoned the perfectly good air mattress, she gave it a try. Of course, it put her right on the floor. Not to be defeated, she folded it in half and stretched out. That was a little better. Just as she drifted off, it gave up the ghost and blew out. Hearing all the racket, Mother and I got up to help. I invited her to share my bed, but she was mad and wouldn’t have any part of it. Mother offered to share the bi-fold sofa, but there was no way that would work. She ended up spendinding the rest of the night wrapped in a blanket trying to sleep in a not-so-easy chair.
We got up early to Have breakfast and get ready for our trip. At the kitchen table, We chatted over breakfast and sipped coffee. Mother and Phyllis lied about the extent of their miserable night. Phyllis had to come up with an excuse about abandoning the mousy attic. Cousin Kat polished off the last piece of the rancid sausage with her breakfast.
I got the first shower, keeping it short, since I remembered Cousin Kat’s lesson. It was pleasantly hot, but Mother said Cousin Kat ducked down to the basement to “get something” while I showered. Mother was next in line. When she got in, the water was nice and hot while she soaped up, but in just a minute, an icy blast hit her. Obviously, Cousin Kat’s basement errand was to cut off the water heater. The water came from a spring, so Mother’s hot shower was over. She had to wipe the soap off with a wet washcloth dipped in icy water.
She was furious when she shivered out of her shower, accusing me of using all the hot water.
“Mother, I wasn’t in there but a couple of minutes. I didn’t use that much!”
All the while, Cousin Kat sat humming contentedly, finally offering, “Oh well, that water heater’s old. I guess it just gave out.” Only the day before she’d told us that her son had just put in a new one, over her objections. “I can heat what water I need on the stove and save the heating bill.” She made no mention of turning off the water heater.
Finally, the cold, sleepy bunch was ready to start the trip.
To be continued
I am a sucker for marriages that last and I am glad your mom and dad’s did.
About cousin Kat, they probably lived in difficult times and she knew how to make a penny last. My grandmother always made a sign of the cross over every pot of rice she cooked. When asked she said, there are so many people who are starving in the world, so I am thanking God for the rice he has given us to eat- it made me wonder if she was crazy or what- she being a farmer’s wife and rice always seeming to be in plenty but she might have seen hard times at some time.
I am glad cousin Kat was ok for some time after your visit- is she still alive ? I read somewhere that life in the mountains of West Virginia was and is tough especially with the mines not working- not sure if that is the same Virginia of your story.
Susie
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She died well into her nineties. I still miss her. We used to visit every summer. She was a pure delight.she did have a hard time coming up, but penury runs in that family.
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I was surprised that Kat got to the end of this post without succumbing to food poisoning. She must have a cast-iron stomach. Of course, part 2 is yet to come, so I guess there’s still time.
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I think she’d built her immune system up over the years. She may have been part buzzard.
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I will not stay with cousin Kat! I will stay in a convent first!
Why the heck do you continue to stay there?😂
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That was the he last time!her mind was slipping. Previous visits had been quirky but fun.
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So fun to read about, read the post to Danny as we drove. We both got a kick out of it.🤗
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I’m glad. Better to hear than live it!
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So, does your Aunt Kat live out here in draught-stricken CA???? I’m pretty bad with nagging at people to CONSERVE, but I’ve yet to ask people to save their shower water for a bath….I’m thinkin’ I’ll pass on that conservation method!! 😉
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She was from the mountains of Virginia.
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I”m glad I’d eaten before I read this. What a miserable night. Fun to read about, though. 😀 — Suzanne
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Bad post to read over lunch!
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Can’t believe anyone can be this tight, especially with family. BTW, did she not suffer after that sausage? At all?
Love this. Can’t wait for the next part. 🙂 😀 ❤
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I love your stories, so full of color and unique!!!!! Such a treat to read! Can’t wait to see what is next.
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Thanks Lynn. Don’t read while u are eating.
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haha no for sure! you bring this all to life!
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I thought as a cook, you’d enjoy it!
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Oh yeah!
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Can’t wait to see if Cousin Kat survives!
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Barely,
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OMG!
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Can’t wait to read the rest of this one !!
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Gets worse.
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Thought it would 🙂
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I’m amazed that you ever went back for another visit ??? ☺ I had to smile about saving the bathwater. My younger siblings complain all the time about being on the end of that line, especially after the older 3 sisters started leg-shaving. ☺☺☺
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That was our last visit. She had always been tight, but she as starting to get dementia then obsessed about money. Before that it had just been quirky. That time was miserable. A couple of years after that she may bed in with her son. At our house, it was Daddy first, mother, Phyllis, fresh water, then me and my brother, in our underwear of course, then babies. We got 2-3 inches. Starting with me and my brother, Mother put in a smidge of washing powder because we got so dirty. Sometimes we got the water so dirty, the babies got an inch ot two of fresh. All the time we like bed is n that house, we never had a shower curtain because Mother never could spare the money. And the same thing me, Daddy blew my new on useless poultry, hunting stuff, and whatever junk caught his eye. He dressed better than anyone else in the family. He went into a rage when Mother tried to curb his spending, demanding to know where she blew all the money. He made a very good living, but blew it on junk. She had to kite checks to keep from being overdrawn. I always wished she’d leave him, but she was convinced she couldn’t make it. What a joke!
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