I am the World Champion at talking when I should have been listening. More than thirty years ago, I had a dear friend in Nursing School who was valiantly struggling with morbidly obesity serious enough to interfere with ambulation and other life activities, not to mention the psychic and social pain she dealt with daily. Working hard to get her weight under control when I last saw her at the end of classes in May, she’d obviously lost a few pounds by the time classes resumed in September. I congratulated her, delighted at her progress.
She thanked me, saying,”I lost seven pounds over the summer.” (I thought.)
“Seven pounds has made such a difference! That’s wonderful. Boy, pretty soon you’ll see some real progress!”
Bursting into tears, she wailed. “I said seventy pounds.”
I am happy to say, despite my discouraging words, she lost over two hundred pounds by the time she graduated, simply by dietary and life style changes! What a woman!
There was a line in Pulp Fiction…”Do you listen, or wait to talk”.
Guilty. Maybe it’s the writing thing, but I’m usually composing my response. A very familiar post. ☺
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She is a brave and courageous woman. You didn’t discourage her at all!
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She kept right on!
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LOL. That’s almost as good as asking a young woman when her baby is due – and it turns out that she’s not pregnant.
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I’ve done that,too.
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Ha Ha! I think I need to have one of those awards as well. Well done to your friend for her hard work in losing so much weight.
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She did good!
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Poor woman…Poor you, you must have felt terrible…My closest lifelong friend has always struggled with the same condition. I recall how people stared at us when we went out to dinner. They looked at her as if she had no right to eat at all. When we talk about stigma…the stigma against people who are obese is terrible.
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Yes it is.
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Maybe your words actually motivated her to lose even more weight… who knows.
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Maybe, more likely it motivated her to want to punch me in my big, stupid mouth.
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Oops.. I love that award statue gif. 🙂 lol
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Help yourself!
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🙂 OK … I sometimrd need that award.. lol
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Oh, Linda, we’ve all been there with those moments you want to hit the imaginary “rewind” button. And kudos to your friend for achieving such a substantial weight loss.
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Wasn’t that wonderful! It turned her life around.
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You have the most amazing stories…and your candid honesty cuts straight through to the heart.
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Sometimes I hear stuff coming out of my mouth and hope it wasn’t from me.
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But the truth is, because you’re willing to share your frailty (and we relate to the same frailty’s) — the laughter gets to come. And, frankly, at this point, it’s so very, VERY funny!
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I love to laugh.
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Ha! Ha!. We should get one to put on the mantel. How hilarious.
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You’ll have to get your own. Mine is lifetime achievement!
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Ha! Ha!
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Well done!
I once left my wedding toast at home and thus my parting words to the bride and groom were “until you die.”
In my defense, he was my ex-boyfriend, I was pregnant, I had to wear a red satin dress, and they’re not married anymore, OKAY? Okay 😉
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Good for you. I’m sure he knew exactly how you meant it! Ha! Ha!
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