Life at Cousin Jean’s with doting family was all a child could have asked. Charley tagged along behind Robert and Bobby at their work, milking, plowing, riding the tractor, and working the crops. Should she tire of them, she had a sweet baby sister to cuddle and Josie and Birdie to keep her busy. The dog had found a litter of speckled pups and was happy to share them after a few weeks, The chickens and cats came running when she called. What more could a child ask?
She was there long enough that she’d outgrown all the clothes packed for her, so she wore hand-me-down overalls and simple popover dresses Geneva had constructed by hand, her first attempts at sewing. Mimicking her hero, Robert, Charley never went anywhere without her straw hat. She’d not worn a shoe all summer.
Charley’s father and brothers visited her every couple of weeks on Charles’s Wednesday off while Cora was with Ellen. She loved her brothers’ rough games and wrestling with them. She was no shrinking violet and gave as good as she got. She’d always held a special spot in her father’s heart, maybe since he’d had early concerns about her. He’d not had a real chance to bond with Ginny since she’d been with Geneva practically since birth. He looked forward to having his family together.
After Cousin Jean’s death, Charles fetched Geneva, Charley, Ginny, and Josie home. All four were crying as they left the farm. Geneva grieved her loss. Charley, because Geneva wept, and she hadn’t been allowed to bring a puppy, and Josie at leaving her sweetheart. Ginny cried because at eight months, she was good at it.
He stooped in at his office for a few minutes and took Cora’s call before heading home to prepare Ellen for the girl’s homecoming.
Sounds like a wonderful life for a child.
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Ohoh – storm’s brewing…….
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Yep!
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I have so many questions. I’ll wait for more…:)
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That’s fine. I know where this ends up but not sure how I get there.
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I’d love to talk to you about the hospital scenes. They’re so vivid.
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Sure. Give me a call.
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Ok…Today and tomorrow are taken with doctor’s appointments. Is Saturday good?
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Absolutely. I am in New Jersey! I hope this story isn’t too disturbing.
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Noo…not at all. I’m intrigued by your description of the hospital and the procedures. Isn’t weird that I felt I had to ask you in private if you’ve has a personal experience with mental health during 1960’s.
I guess I have my post on internalized mental health stigma?
But that’s my question. It’s so vivid…
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I have relatives who worked at a state facility during that period. Also, I have 2 friends with schizophrenic mothers. I also researched it.
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OK. Wow…I guess the treatment of patients in mental institutions varied from State to State.
My Father had a twin sister who had a diagnosis of dementia praecox which was the term for Schizophrenia in the 50’s.
She lived in a shared cottage on the grounds of the SC State Hospital in Columbia.
The attendants that you describe make me wonder what my Father’s sister suffered when
we weren’t there.
Of course living on the streets is actually more traumatic and brutal.
I wonder what it will take to make us more compassionate about mental illness
in general.
You’ve done an excellent job with these scenes.
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Thanks. I noticed in Virginia State Hosital most of the attendants were me. I expect that was to maintain control.
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I was hospitalized for being ‘queer’ when I was fifteen. I was hospitalized for the wrong reason and most certainly would have been tortured by way of curing me bit the staff was nice. 🙂
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Glad the staff was good. Could have been terrible.
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The doctors were going to do aversion therapy on me. Hard to believe that the world thought it was normal to lock people up and give shock treatments to their groins.
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Hard to believe homosexuality was a diagnosis then. How did you manage to avoid therapy?
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Truly….I wasn’t the best patient. I was very defiant about my right to be gay.
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What were you thinking? Ah ha ha ha!
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It worked! I refused to be ashamed of it. It’s a thing with me to this day. LOL!
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Good for you!
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Yeah…I guess. It was hard tho…
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I always wonder what those same people would do if someone forced them to be gay.
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The closest example we have is prison. The sex drive in men between 14 and 30 is at its peak and when they are deprived of women, they have sex with each other. Because prisoners are involuntarily segregated, they are essentially forced to turn gay. Most people consider ‘prison sex’ a joke but it isn’t.
Some of the younger men are brutally raped into submission and some of the men fall in love with
each other.
And I bet that if you stuck a gay man in a woman’s prison he’d eventually turn lesbian, which is how any queen with a decent sense of humor would describe it…:)
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More, carry on and……… 🌹
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Oh bless them… uprooted just as they were settled…
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You left us at a cliffhanger, Linda. We’ll all be waiting to see what happens. 🙂 — Suzanne
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Just posted.
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